Glossary: Viewing (Wake)

A viewing (also known as a wake) is a time set aside for family and friends to pay their respects and, in some cases, see the deceased in an open casket.

It usually takes place before the funeral service and provides an opportunity for personal goodbyes.

What a viewing (wake) does

A viewing offers a shared space for remembrance and farewell before the funeral.

It allows people to:

• pay their respects in person
• offer condolences to the family
• say goodbye in a more personal setting
• gather informally before the main ceremony

Why a viewing (wake) is important

A viewing can help people process loss in a more direct and personal way.

Without it:

• some may feel they did not have a chance to say goodbye
• support for the family may be more limited

With a viewing:

• individuals can reflect and connect more closely
• the grieving process may feel more complete
• families receive support in a more personal setting

What a viewing (wake) includes

A viewing or wake may include:

• an open or closed casket
• quiet visitation and reflection
• informal conversations and condolences
• religious or cultural elements (depending on tradition)

The format can vary widely.

What a viewing (wake) does NOT do

A viewing does not:

• replace the funeral or memorial service
• require an open casket
• follow a fixed structure

It is a preliminary gathering, not the main ceremony.

When a viewing (wake) takes place

A viewing typically occurs:

• one or more days before the funeral
• at a funeral home, place of worship, or private setting
• sometimes over several hours or days

Common misunderstandings

Some common misconceptions include:

• assuming it must involve an open casket
• thinking it is always religious
• confusing it with the funeral service itself

In practice, it can be adapted to personal or cultural preferences.

Related concepts

• Funeral Service
• Memorial Service
• Paying Respects
• Funeral Rite

Practical note

Including a viewing in funeral arrangements can provide an additional opportunity for personal farewell and support among family and friends.